20 simple tips to be happy now By Dr. Timothy Sharp
Author of “The Happiness Handbook” Founder of The Happiness Institute
Introduction
This e-Book is based on Dr. Sharp’s popular publication “The Happiness Handbook”. Each of the tips listed here is described in more detail in this book, which also has a series of accompanying workbooks.
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This e-Book is also based on the following philosophy:
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Happiness is the ultimate purpose in life
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Happiness is achievable, for all of us
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Happiness is determined more by our minds than by our circumstances
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The disciplines that will lead to and enhance happiness (such as helpful thinking and good
habits) can be learned and mastered, with practice.
Tip 1
Make happiness a priority.
If happiness is not at the
top of your list then other
things will take precedence.
If other things take precedenc
e, they may well interfere
with your efforts to feel good.
Tip 2
Make plans to be happy.
Those who fail to plan, plan
to fail. Just like in any
other life domain,
the successful
pursuit of happiness requires planning.
Tip 3
Set happy goals.
Following on from Tip 2, planning
requires effective goal setting. And don’t forget to
make sure your goals are SMART (specific,
measurable, achievable, relevant and timed).
Tip 4
Do things that make you happy.
Although this
sounds obvious, many people simple forget to do
things from which they gain pleasure. And do them as
often as possible.
Tip 5
Set yourself tasks from which you’ll gain
satisfaction.
As well as pleasure and enjoyment,
satisfaction is also an impo
rtant part of happiness. So
make sure that when you’re planning your tasks and
activities you include things
that might not be fun, but
from which you’ll gain a sense of achievement.
Tip 6
Play and have fun.
Don’t take life too seriously.
Although we all have responsib
ilities there’s no reason
why we can’t approach much of our lives in a playful
manner. In fact, those who do so will undoubtedly be
happier.
Tip 7
Identify where your strengths lie.
Know where your
faults and weaknesses are to avoid problems. Know
where your strengths lie to be really happy and to
succeed in life.
Tip 8
Utilise your strengths.
Although we all can and
should endeavour to improve
in areas in which we’re
weak there’s just as much
, if not more, to be gained
from focusing on the maximal utilisation of your
strengths (including all your positive qualities and
attributes).
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